- Date:
- 09/18/03
- Name:
- nicholas
- Email:
- jcrew22ae@hotmail.com
- Age:
- 22
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- No
- Date:
- 10/2/03
- Name:
- adamseylvia
- Email:
- Age:
- 16
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- No
- Date:
- 10/03/03
- Name:
- Me!
- Email:
- Age:
- um
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
- Date:
- 10/6/03
- Name:
- BIGGIRLINLOVE
- Email:
- Age:
- 25
- Dated-online-before:
- No
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- It depends on the circumstances
- Date:
- 10/19/03
- Name:
- girlie2003
- Email:
- caligirlie_1@yahoo.com
- Age:
- 24
- Dated-online-before:
- Thought about it
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- It depends on the circumstances
- Date:
- 11/17/03
- Name:
- NO NAME
- Email:
- Age:
- 14
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- It depends on the circumstances
- Date:
- 09/26/03
- Name:
- cowgal
- Email:
- Age:
- 28
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- No
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she was perfect. everything about her made me speechless. everytime i'd talk to her, my heart would skip a beat and i'd be overwhelmed with an unexplainable feeling deep inside. i met her through a friend and we instantaneously hit it off. 3 months later, i asked her to be my girlfriend. everything was going great, but there's always a down side to every love story. I have the worse luck in the world. i got in a terrible car accident, that left me in a coma for a couple of weeks, and in the hospital for about two months. During my stay, i received more bad news. I have cancer. This ruined my whole outlook on life, on my perfect girlfriend, and on my future. Questions flooded my mind; yet no words could come out of my mouth. I was crushed. Once I got out, I told her the terrible news, she was terrified and scared. I knew right then that she wasn't just another girl that i've dated years past, she was special. We overcame the hard time and went on with our lives. After more bad news came, she decided she couldn't take anymore, so my health was never to be spoken of again. Live life to its fullest? i tried. Months past, i was overjoyed that she was mine and i was all hers. Then one night, i finally confessed my feelings for her. I loved her.. so much.. words can't even say how much. It took her awhile to finally say it in return. As you can imagine, I was extatic. No worries, no fear, as long as I had her. She was my reason for living. She gave me faith and she gave me happiness. Then.. it happened. The thing I never even thought about happening, my worse fear ever. A week before our one year anniversary.. I got the news. She had cheated on me. My heart felt as if someone had thrown a huge boulder on it and crushed it into pieces. I didnt want to believe the words the were coming from her mouth but she would never lie. I didnt want to believe it. I didnt. Right at that moment, I felt like dying. I wanted to die. My whole world came crashing down.. and it only took one night. She broke up with me, I begged her not to.. but it was too late. She claimed that she didnt want to hurt me more than she already has. So i tried to move on, tried not to think about it, but I cant seem to imagine life without her. So a couple of days later, i begged her to come back to me. She agreed, but things weren't gonna be the same as before. They never will be the same.. ever.. anymore. Things were rocky for 3 months. We had good days.. and we also had bad days. I tried so hard to hold on to her..but love won't work one-sided. This.. I learned the hard way. After all we've been through.. she finally closed her heart. She told me to go away.. to never talk to her again. She said that the day me and her found each other was the deadliest day for both me and her. She was wrong. It was the happiest day of my life. I cant go a day without talking to her. Now it's been 3 weeks and im dying inside and out. i feel like i cant go on without her. She has made too big of an impact in my life.. and i just cant let go. I never imagined life without her.. never.. and it hurts so bad now. She is my first love.. and what she doesn't know.. and never will.. is that she is my last. I love her.. so much. I know one day.. I will be together with her again.. but until that day comes, my heart will never stop missing her. Now, I am very sick, and it's really sad to try and get through this on my own. I've decided to give up.. i've stopped my treatments and only god knows when i'll be going. I guess it'll be easier for her to not know my status.. i hate it when she's hurting. Letting go of someone you really really love.... is the worse thing you can ever experience. I felt no pain while I was with her. Now all I feel is pain. I dont regret being with her.. I dont regret giving her my heart.. true love knows no regret. I give up.. now all i can do is wait.... watching her from heaven will hopefully ease my pain.. even though I cant be with her.. I would be able to see her beautiful smile, her perfect body, and her gorgeous eyes.. every single second. I love her.. i always will.
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It was a hot July afternoon,I was chatting in Yahoo chatroom as a ID called china_finegirl.There were so many guys in it saying Hi to me.But there was someone special who said Hi to me and insist on talking to me.He said he was interested in my nickname.He just wanna find out who I was.After chatting for a while,I knew something about him who lived in a far place from me--UK.I found that he was not like other guys online who always wanted to find sex and pleasant in chatrooms.He is totally different that I found that he could be a good friend maybe.I was so impressed on him that we fixed the time for chatting next day when he said he had to leave.I was not too interested in UK at that time coz i loved USA the best. We chatted at the exact time which we fixed the last day.I found that he was a polite guy who have the good sense of time.We asked each other what the ideal lover in mind.We found that our ideal lovers are just like each other--loyal,honest,... Once in the night(chinese time),there were some crazy knocking at my door while I was chatting with him.I was so frighted that I didn't know what to do but keeping on typying him what happened to me.I told him I just want him to be there with me and wouldn't go anywhere.He thought I was kidding,but afterall he trusted me for my words.He didn't tell me it was his work time that he had to go to work until once I asked him.He said he didn't go to work just for my sake.I was so moved that I told him I just wanted him to be there at my side to hug and kiss me to remove my frighteness.I told him I love him.He told me that his heart said he loved me so much. Our love began like that.I don't know what he looks like.But he knows what i look like,and he said i was beautiful.He doesn't want his girl to love him just for what he looks like but for who he is.He told me later that his friends said he is handsome and looks like Keanu Reeves.He is so great a guy that he skipped class several times just for chatting with me.He didn't want me to be unhappy.He said he come online just for making me happy.I got so moved... Long long time passed,we found that we couldn't separate from each other wherever we are.We decide to marry next year when I go to the UK.We believe that we would regret if we couldn't be with each other.We know that our love is always lasting for ever.
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This isn't your average online "love" story, but, what is? He sounded like a homosexual when I first met him and he was obsessed with Freddie Mercury and Queen. I liked them both before I met him, but now, eh, I don't know. He sounded like a really nice guy and seemed to like flirting. We talked almost every single day for hours and hours for over a year straight. He lived about four hours away and we always talked of meeting each other. One day he told me he loved me. I never believed in love and it was online. So, of course, I didn't believe him, so I didn't say it back. Of course, I had feelings for him, but I always heard that people my age were too young for love, so I never even thought of it. He was so nice, but from there on out, I acted so different. I was always afraid that he would say it again, and he did. He kept telling me until I finally gave in, because I am young, gullable, and stupid. About three days after that, I still had the same feelings for him, but I was afraid of them, so I kept denying them. He knew I wanted to say the three magic words to him, but I just couldn't. I always thought of when our relationship would end and didn't like the thought. I then began to think that all relationships end sometime and I began to hurt. Evertime I talked to him and he would say my name and the lovely three words, I held back the tears as I would write, "whateva." I didn't want to get hurt, so I thought I would get out of it quickly, not thinking that I could be hurting him. I always told him that he was a liar everything he told me how he "really" felt about me. It took him so long to give up on me and once he did, I began to regret everything I had ever done to him. For a few months we didn't talk. Over those months, I thought about him almost everyday, even when I was with another guy. And man, I haven't even met this guy in person! Well, he moved about 10 minutes away from me to live with another girl. So, I e-mailed him because I heard he was talking trash about me. But, that was just an easy excuse. He knew that too. Every part of me wanted to apologize and make up, but I was too late. He was such a jerk, so sarcastic and hurtful. He had totally changed in those months. It hurt so bad, but then I thought, maybe he really did feel that way about me and now he is making me hurt. I knew he wanted me to feel the same pain he did when I rejected him and he did. He still is making me hurt. He knows it too. He keeps on hurting me and using everything I said to him, against me. Still, every part of me wants him back, but as his old self. His new self treats me like crap although I know I deserve it. I was rejected a few times in my life, and yeah, it did hurt, but not as much as this. He keeps saying, "Now, you know how I feel." I guess I really do. (I just wanted to tell you that I am so sorry Jake. I regret everything, and Im sorry about all those fights. I never meant to hurt you, and you were right, I was afraid of what might happen to us, so I chickened out, like always. I know I don't deserve you and that really hurts. I know I deserve everything you are throwing my way right now. I know that I deserve all the horrible things that you are and aren't saying to me. I know you hate me, but for some stupid reason, I still have those same feelings for you. I'll always miss you, and I'll never, ever forget you. Have a great life because there is no use holding on to you when I know that I can never ever have you. Love, Your friend, forever. (SJL)
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I'm a plus size girl who thought that because of my weight no man would ever love me..? I come from a strick family who wants me to stay the baby of the bunch so to speak and did not approve of my wanting to date. I just bought my first computer and heard about online dating and wondered if I should try it out..? I snooped around and found out that most of the men on those sites, were only interested in sex and one night stands, so I didn't bother with it anymore. I was a fan of sci-fi and put together my own website, including a photo of me on the main page. I never really expected anything more then to share my interest to other fans of the shows. Then one day I received an email that changed my life..? A man from overseas wrote to me asking me what my website was about..? I replied, and he wrote back that I was a Cutie and if I would like to be friends..? By our third email I was HEAD OVER HEALS IN LOVE with this man, and all I knew was his name, and age (49) I never saw a photo yet of him but something inside me told me that he was MY SOULMATE..!! I sent photo's of myself to him, telling him straight off that I was a BIG GIRL in advance so that he could back out of any kind of a relationship. He told me that I was GORGEOUS, and that size did not matter to him, but the inside was what counts..!! When he did send me his photo I was in 7th heaven, he was GORGEOUS beyond words..!! After our first month of corresponding he told me that he had been looking for me his whole life and I told him that I loved him..!! We corresponded via emails every day with occassional phone calls and letters for just over a year and a half before we finally met in person..! Just a few months before we did meet he sent me some photos of himself that were up to date. MY GORGEOUS HUNK was 15 years OLDER looking than what he looked like in his first photo he sent me, going bald and overweighted..? I did not care for I was not perfect either, and I loved him for everything he stood for..!! We made arrangements, and I came over to him to stay with him for 2 months, it was HEAVEN..!! We got on famously together, and he even kept me a Virgin still, although we did make love other ways..!! He told me that I was affecting him in a good way and that he wanted to marry me and have children with me for I was everything he ever wanted in a woman..!! I was over the moon with happiness..!! On the day that we parted, I couldn't stop crying, neither could he, and when I returned home an email from him was waiting for me, which said that he was devasted on my leaving, that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, that he loved me and needed me and that I wasn't to get to comfortable back home for he would be sending for me real soon..!! Soon we will have been together for 2 years, and there is NOTHING I wouldn't do for this man, for I LOVE HIM MORE than life itself...!! So what is my problem...? HE LIED to ME..!! We have been parted for a few months now and already everything he told me before we met is being changed..? I found out only while I was with him that is using POT. I found out after I left him that he has no intentions of giving it up either. I found out that he does NOT want to have children ever. and that it would be a LONG time before we would get married for he really does not want to marry again but to mainly just have a long term dating relationship with me in my own place and just come over for sex. I found out that I'm not allowed to inniate love making but instead wait until he is ready for it. I'm not allowed to cuddle him in bed for he likes to sleep on his own side, and the whole time we were together in person we only shared the bed 5 times when we made love. I found out that he is a selfish lover and never really tried bringing me to orgasm, and when I complained he said it was my fault..that I probably could only orgasm when my virginity was broken, or I probably needed to loose some weight before I could have orgasm..?. I found out that he does not want me to return until late next year, and that I was to loose my weight before I returned to him..!! I am now 27 going on 28 and I've given this man everything that I have of value to me, my heart, my soul, my body, and my deepest love, and yet he is not making any sacrifices for me..? Do I love this man still...? WITH ALL MY HEART and SOUL, but I don't know if I can wait my life away for him to decide that he is ready to commit to me, and then there is still a possibility in 5-10 years time that he still wont..? Do I believe in on line relationships..? I thought I did, when I found my guy, he makes me feel loved and happy when he praises me and loves me, but when he only takes from me and does not give, then I wish that we never ever met. I am greatly scared and confused, for I believe it is true love on my part, but I'm not certain anymore on his..? I'm scared that if I wait my life away on him that I will miss out on a man who DOES LOVE ME for ME for all my faults as well as my values..? And I'm scared that if I give him up, I will be alone because he WAS the man I was meant to spend my life with..? Who ever said that it is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all, was an idiot..! I'd rather have spent my life alone and unloved, then to spend the rest of my days hurting soo badly, from going through this relationship. I won't pull down online dating because it is a good thing to get to know a person as they are as a human being without all the lust and sex that goes with it when you date in person, but I do suggest that you DON'T date someone who is too far away from you to see each other on a regular basis. And DON'T believe that person when they say that just because you both are dating online doesn't count as a serious relationship, because it DOES COUNT. If you are saying sexy things to each other, and tell each other how much you love them and want them, it doesnt matter if its via emails or in person, it STILL COUNTS as a SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP..! Now if only I could listen to my own advice to decide what to do..?
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Ok, I started chatting online in June of 1999 I believe, I was 19 and he was 23. I remember getting a message from this guy lspeed13 in yahoo chat. I had just gotten my computer and was super excited on what the new things the web would teach me. He was one of the first person to pop into my window and say,"hi." I replied back and things took off from there.We so clicked, I mean he was sensitive, loving, compassionate, understanding all of the qualities that I would like in a man. He would write me these beautiful emails and I would try to do the same....to this day I have about 400 emails from him. The thing is this...the reason I started chatting online was because I was trying to find an outlet away from my significant other. I met my "signifcant other" when I was 16. I was so in love with him, he was my world until that awful day when he didnt come home, i was 19. He stood out all night after work...when he came home and i asked him where he was, and he just told me to forget about it!!! I stood there looking at him and just trying to figure out, how someone that I love so much could hurt me sooo much???...My heart from that day on felt like it had been crushed and put in a meat grinder and then packed into the frezeer for ever. I mean my mentality was that when you found your one true love that was it, that you were suppose to stay with that person forever...grow old and grey together, I could never and have never cheated on him, I just didnt understand his behavior. Of course I asked if he cheated, and he denied it,and I gave him another chance. Then it happened, His cell phone rang and it was a girl asking for him...the lump on my throat was so hard to swallow I actually stopped breathing and finally got the courage to ask who the female voice on the other end was...She said that it was his lover, that she knew about me, that she didn't care. That when he would go to work he would spend his lunch hours f***** her, that when he would tell me he was working over time, he spent those long nights in her bed. Instead of cursing her out, I couldn't..I just asked "why" she did it, and she just said because she felt like it and that because her boyfriend broke up with her because of her infedility, that she wanted my relationship to end aswell. I asked if she cared for my significant other, all she said was that she cared for the good sex and that was it!!! This time I told him that it was over...He confessed and said the whole im sorry speech, gave me dozens upon dozens of roses, and cried for the first time begging me to not break up our reltionship. In my mind I knew I wasn't responsible, it was all him, but again I forgave, but have never forgotten. I actually saw a picture of that b****, and I mean she isn't all that, at all. Not to be concided, but I am a 5'5", long haired, brown eyed girl with 36D's, and an ass that is very much in shape and as is the rest of my body. I won pageants and hawaiian tropic most beautiful hair, I mean why would my significant other want "that". Well I have never talked to any of my friends about my relationship of fear what they might tell me that im sooo stupid for not getting out of this hell of a relationship. So after that incident I wanted to get away and just talk to someone new, met new friends. And thats the reason for the internet. So when lspeed13 was there i felt secure, i felt in cloud nine all the time. We chatted long hours everyday, we would talk on the phone everyday.... He confessed his feelings for me, told me he had never felt anything remotely close to the feelings hed had for me. Eventhough I was still with my significant other, I couldn't denie my feelings for lseed13, they were real, I though it was impossible to feel "it", but I did feel this new awwwww for this genuine person I have never met. lspeed13 begged for us to met, but I had this fear that he might be a psycho, eventhough deep down I knew he wasn't, but still I didnt want to take my chances. I told him that I needed more time to get to know him better and he agreed....But to this day after 4+ years of chatting and talking on the phone we have not met. About a little less than 2 years ago he met a girl, they have been together since...He told her about us and she doesn't agree with him chatting with me, so we haven't completely stopped chatting, but we write to each other every other month and I call him once in a while to his work phone to see how he is doing. I mean I am happy for him that he found someone, but then again he told me that she recently cheated on him. I wanted to tell him to leave her that she didnt deserve such a wonderful guy, but I didnt...I asked what he was going to do, and he said that he would give her another chance. Well now im here still with my significant other we eventually married. (wishing that I should have gave lspeed13 a chance.) lspeed13 is still with the same girl. I stopped chatting for a good year or so, until 2 months ago. I was just bored and got online. again the first guy that says "hi", was this guy, named Guy. I never used my cam for chatting but this time I did. He also had a cam, so we shared cams and we started chatting. From the get go I let him know that I was married and that I had a son. And that I was just looking for friends thats it. But for some reason I couldn't take my eyes off him, and at that moment he typed that he couldnt stop watching me!!! After 3 days of chatting I got his number and we talked on the phone for ever, honestly I have never felt this feeling, not even for lspeed13. He tells me that I should leave my husband, because he doesn't desere me for cheating on me...he says that he wants me and that he needs me..I need him aswell. We already talk about how many children we want to have and when we are going to get married, of course I know we just suppose this and play around, but deep down inside I would like for this to be true, and he has confessed to me that he would do anything to have me, that I am what he has been searching for, physically, mentally and emotionally. My problem is this...He is 7'2" and I am 5'5". He is Jewish and I am a catholic. He was born in Israel and I was born in the U.S., but I am hispanic. He will probably play pro-basketball in the NBA next year and I will be in med school next year(we will be too busy for each other). I want to meet him, because I dont want to pass him up like I did lspeed13. I did have feelings for lspeed13, but with Guy they seem so real and pure and true and I can't explain it,I feel so much for him already. But then again I am still married to my significant other!!!! It has only been about 2 months since we first chatted....should I meet him already??what should I do?? If someone has advice please email me....I am so confused. P.S. Guy lives only 2+ hours away from me.
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i met this person thro a good friend. i was in a relationship at the time when i did meet him he was always so nice to me and sweet then one day he popped out this question will you go out with me and i was shocked and said no becuz of me being in a relationship and me not knowing him as well as i wanted to...about a week or so later we started to get really close and haveing alot in common but i was still with someone but i started to fall for him so about 2-3 weeks later he asked me out agen but this time he said i know your with some one and i know you dont wanna leave him but i really am falling in love with you....and i was not as shocked as before and i told him i would think about it so i did and about 3 days later i said do you still wanna go out with me...he said "yes!!!" and i said ok ill break up with my boyfriend ....and so i did that and we were getting along didnt fight once in 2-3 months and he said he was comeing up to my state to visit me cuz he lived in Nevada and i live in Penn. so he said he would...but his brother had gotten hurt so that canceled that but i wasnt worried about not meeting him...and after another month or 2 he stoped getting online and we had lost contact with eachother for like a month or 2 i was devestated i waas so attached to this boy that i thought i couldnt live without him...i stayed single the whole 2 months untill i found this other kid me n this other kid were dateing for about 3-4 weeks n the other kid gets online after 3 months...i was so happy that i forgot allll about my boyfriend and i was confused cuz i wanted them both but you know cant have 2 loves at once so i told the online boyfriend that...im staying with my new boyfriend and he was sad OF COURSE then like 2 days ago he told me he had found some one a new girlfriend ...i wasnt jealous i was more sad that i didnt have him all to my self anymore i was mad but i kept the anger in...so now im still with my boyfriend and he is trying to get with that girl....if u want an online relationship please dont lose them like i lost mine and make sure you talk to them so you dont lose contact like i did....its truely a Heartbreaking situation what i went through Just BE CAREFUL WHO U FALL IN LOVE WITH! .....good luck with everything...hope u meet the love of ur dreams like i have...:)
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I'd send a very big warning to anybody using the internet to meet a prospective partner. Using the net brought me nothing but pain and misery, and I nearly lost everything I had. I had at least 2 relationships with people who dumped me like a hot potato and never contacted me again. But that was nothing until the last occasion, since then I've only ever used the net for general chitchat and friendship (which its actually not bad for). I met a woman online on a chat room about 3 years ago, and she seemed like fun. She really wanted to meet me so we went for a pint and I got really drunk. She really seemed like she was a fruitcake with a lot of funny but untrue stories. Anyway I remember wondering about deleting her phone number as I didnt find her all that interesting. And then something happened - by coincidence, she kept turning up everywhere. A club I went to. It turned out we had some mutual friends. And then, about 2 weeks later, she rang me whilst drunk one night and was very funny. I decided to call her up and ask her out for a drink. Anyway a friend of hers really thought we were suited and obviously she really fancied me. I was quite flattered by all this and i had no end of the terrible consequences of the relationship. We started seeing each other and by the end of a month she arrived for the weekend to my place. She never officially moved in and she never left. Because she didn't really live with me I didn't look for rent from her. (Huge mistake in retrospect!) She wasn't a problem so I didn't mind. Anyway then bit by bit things started happening. She gave up her job. She started being sick all the time. There was hardly a fortnight that passed without her ending up in casualty. They never found anything wrong. She started preventing me from going to work, or insisting I ring in sick or delaying me and making me late. I started running into trouble at work. My best friends ex recognised her from years ago and told my friend to warn me off her, that she was dangerous. The response to this was that my partner wouldn't let me speak to my best friend anymore. What was more disturbing was that almost every friendship she made seemed to end in the most horrific arguements. She had also started running up huge phone bills and wasn't paying them. I got her to go back to work but she lied to me and told me she hadn't been paid when she was (I only found this out after we broke up when I found payslips). She also told me that her families bank accounts and her own were frozen because of some investigation into her mother's finances. Of course, the penny didn't drop. Then she wanted to move into another flat. As I knew the landlord well (the flat was in the same house) I paid up my half of the desposit and the rent a month in advance, but my partner gave nothing and promised the rest. By now I had missed 26 work days and was in serious trouble. My family by now were also not speaking to me over this woman. Could it get worse? Oh yes. After about 6 weeks of this my ex then wanted to move back to England. A week later I had a minor breakdown and foolishly agreed. We packed my car, I literally walked out of my job, and just left on the next ferry. I drove to London. It was only 2 days after arriving that I found out she hadn't a single penny to her name. I had to pay for EVERYTHING. And I couldn't get a job, so I signed on the dole. However she wouldn't stay in a job or got sacked so I had to sell my car to pay our rent. I had fallen behind in credit card and loan repayments and had no idea where the next months rent was coming from. By now we were lucky if we ate one meal a day. My ex finally got a reasonable job - after nearly 200 job applications, I still had nothing. The job lasted 2 weeks and she was sacked on Christmas eve. By now we were practically starving. I couldn't even leave as I had nowhere to go and no money to get there. Anyway about 3 weeks after christmas I got offered a job in Richmond and my partner was doing about 10 hours a week in pubs - just enough to eat. We were being constatntly harassed by the landlord as we were late on the rent. I had to borrow over a €1200 from the only family who still talked to me. I knew by now I should probably leave but didnt know how. I went through another two jobs and found a temp job that was interesting and paid me enough to cover the rent and very meagre living for us - what she earned wasnt even a contribution and barely paid for her cigarettes (i had given up as they were a luxury i couldnt afford). It was going ok but by now i was back speaking to my family and my aunt came to visit. My ex disappeared for the weekend (with my ATM card and our cellphone) leaving me totally stranded. We were living in a bedsit off Baker St and I literally walked from there to Victoria to my aunt's hotel. We ended up going to Paddington Green police and reporting her missing. She turned up the next day and was narky about the whole thing. My relatives were extremely upset. I was angry and hurt, but was fair about it. I even rang the hospitals to see was she there. She was angry about that too. Anyway she disappeared again with my ATM card so I cancelled it. She was furious with me the next day. When a new card came i refused to give it to her, or any money. She disappeared yet again. This time, she started walking into branches of my bank and withdrawing money under my name! I went to the police, complained to the bank. They apologised. I could prove it was not me - even the signature was suspicious. By this time I decided to leave. My sister got me a return ticket home for a weekend, and I was bringing most of the few belongings i had left home. I was afraid she would take my passport or something. I gave my notice, explained to the landlord she was stealing from me and I was throwing her out. We agreed to change the locks while she was missing - technically its illegal but my cover at the time was that I had lost my key and she had the only spare. This covered the illegal eviction. I neednt have worried. I went off home for the weekend and got a call from my bank on the way to heathrow to advise me that she had gone into yet another bank and they, incredibly, despite a stay on the account, had made another withdrawal. She had also run up a 450 pound bill on my cellphone with 2 calls to australia! I knew her email password and looked at her mail and found it full of correspondance from others, love letters etc. That was the last straw. I changed my bank account. Anyway my ex did everything to try to get me back once she knew i was leaving. Lots of sob stories and tears. No joy. I left her utterly stranded on the streets of London. I came back to ireland to face €10,000 of debt, including a €760 phone bill she had run up. I was lucky, i got a good job in under a week and mvoed to a new city, new life. I've paid off all but €1000 now. 3 weeks after I left, a friend of mine met my ex and told me she was moving to newcastle to be with somebody she had met on the internet a week previously! (In the end the same friend was accosted by her in newcastle when she left a year later, on the run from the police . . . i got a call from her 6 months after that, she had returned to ireland. I basically told her I didnt want to know). I'd advise you to be extremely wary of who you meet on the net. Its just riddled with dangerous women and men who are desperately seeking somebody for all the wrong reasons. I'd say stick to people whose identities you can verify and who has a clear pattern of stability. These people are leeches and they will do anything to find you . ..
