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- Date:
- 11/19/04
- Name:
- Rads
- Email:
- Age:
- 23
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
My partner and I met online at an by-invitation only website. He found my profile, added me to his friends list, which sparked off an email notification to my mailbox. I checked out his profile, saw he wasn't a latent genocidal maniac :) and added him to my friends list. We started off by emailing each other, but within two days, we were chatting on the phone (and yes, my phone bill was horrendous as he wasn't in the same state as me!). Was very innocent, started out as friendly chatting. But we both had an inkling that it was developing into something more, when 3 weeks into the chatting, we realised that we were spending about 3 - 4 hours a day communicating, be it via messenger, mobile, or mail. But it was after the marathon 7.5 hour phone call (yep, you read it right - SEVEN AND A HALF HOURS) that we realised there was something special about the other person. So, we arranged to meet (on his birthday!) about 3 months after we first started chatting. That was the beginning of the end - and now, we're living together very happily ;) So, despite the horror stories you might have heard about cyberdating, there's lots of happy endings too. You just have to be in the right place - as with many things in life :)
- Date:
- 12/06/04
- Name:
- Danielle
- Email:
- inflamesgirl@hotmail.com
- Age:
- 18
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- It depends on the circumstances
Story
I was living with a friend of mine's family for a short time while I went to school in a city close to my own. I used an online chat/dating service. Not necessarily to date anyone, but I was always the type to flirt with men online. I was looking through some pictures one day when I came across a guy who reminded me of Jack Black, so I read his profile and messaged him. At the time, he apparently spent alot of time on the computer and was taking medication for depression due to some family problems. We talked online and got to know each other, as it turned out, he lived about half an hour away from my friend's house. So after a few days of chatting on MSN, we started talking on the phone. A week after the first message was sent we decided to meet in person. So we met under a starry sky at a gazebo in his hometown. I stayed a few hours and fell for him instantly. He was 50 times better than I could have ever imagined. We hugged goodbye, upset the night was over. When I left I couldn't stop thinking about him, we continued talking everyday. Three days later we met again, this time I went to his house. He asked me out and we've been together ever since. We told each other we loved each other within two weeks of knowing one another. Three and a half months later, I found out I was pregnant, with his baby. On Canada Day (July 1st) he asked me to marry him and told me he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and our baby. On December 31st of this year we are to be married, and the baby (which will be a boy) is due Feb. 20th. The original due date was Valentine's day. We've been living together at his mother's house for 6 months and we just moved into our own apartment a few days ago. We have spoken in some way, by email, phone or in person, every day since we first met.
- Date:
- 01/21/05
- Name:
- Rebecca
- Email:
- Age:
- 16
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
I'm young I admit that but when I seen his eyes on the picture, I fell in love straight away, I knew I wanted to get to know him better so I emailed him and he emailed back right away. He was sweet so we exchanged messenger addresses...we chatted for hours and hours and it all became rather flirty. I would talk to him every sinlge day online and it would be the best part of the day for me. It only hit me how much I enjoyed chatting to him when he went on holiday for a week, he wasnt online - it killed me! i mailed him everyday telling him how much i missed him. After talking to him for so long i realised i wasnt just attracted to this man as a person, his personality was amazing, he always complimented me and told me how beautiful i was, how he wanted to hold me in his arms! I knew I was in love with him and he confessed the same feelings to me. The only problem was - he lived 200 miles away. We arranged to meet up and seeing this man in person gave me the most incredible feeling - it was like butterflies dancing in my stomach! He kissed me and it sent shivers down my spine! I hope to marry this man and make him proud! He's already asked me to marry him...but im taking each day as it comes for now! He's my angel - I love him more than words
- Date:
- 1/29/05
- Name:
- caa_girl
- Email:
- Age:
- 19
- Dated-online-before:
- No
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
Hi My name is C, I went through a messy relationship back in January we dated for a while and soon we became in engage to make a long story short... We were suppose to get married in feb on the 10th in 2005. However I found out he was sleeping around on me and some other stuff. During the time I was dating Brad. I had an awesome internet friend named J... We met on the christianchat.co.uk. We kept talking for seven months having pillow fights and mud fights. Anyways I was still hurt over the break up with Brad. Then one day my friend J. Told me he was ending our friendship. My heart ache with pain I then realize how much I have fallen for J. I told him to please forgive me if it was something I did to end our friendship. Thankfully he told he was just being crazy and we were friends again. Then on Christmas night we were talking and he asked me as a joke if I had feelings for him. I told him I did. He was shock I would later find out. However my Dad came in and told me I was grounded off the computer. I was going through a real difficult time and I needed my internet buddies more then anything else. My 1 year anniversary with Brad was coming up and the pain was driving me crazy. My Dad let me get back on the computer because I told him why I needed it. Well anyways when I got back on the computer I read an email from J. saying he step across his boundaries and he was leaving me for good. I wrote him an email back explaining my feelings for him. We started dating shortly after on the internet. During that time I have received 100's of emails and ecards from him. I also received two letters one made me cried more then the other though. I truly have found my soul mate in the summer of 2006. I plan on going to meet him in India. If you thought 3,000 miles was long distant try around the world. I live in the Usa. I know though our love can conquer anything including several oceans. Our love is not always up in the sky. We just recently have had our first fight, but after two days of not being able to sleep. We realize how much we love each other. How bless we are that God almighty brought us together. He will be going off the internet for 40 days but, he knows I will be waiting. He is my life, my world, my everything. I am so in love with my J. I also will be unable to go on the internet for 90 days, but while we are away from each other our love is already growing stronger. Life sometimes throws you a bad relationship so then you can realized how good your relationship is when you find the one. We been dating since Dec. 27th and we are so very much head over hills in love. We know our love for each other is going to be ridicule and tested a lot. We also know that our love for each other is stronger then anything this world can throw our way. So to all you girls who think you can never find the man of your dreams on the net.... Guess again! My man is the most sweetest, most caring, man I have ever met. He is also very romantic and I love him very much. My parents are still skeptical that you can find love on the internet, but what we feel for each other in our hearts is Jesus brought us together and we both pray marriage was the main reason we were brought together. My J is my love, my best friend, my prayer parthner and my Lover. I love you very much my J.
- Date:
- 041605
- Name:
- dreamer
- Email:
- bigsister234@hotmail.com
- Age:
- 22
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- No
Story
update to my story. we moved into together and it was ok for a while but he is in debt and needs to get his life together and so do I so we broke up and I moved back to my state. My heart is extremely broken and if anyone has gone through this could they email me and tell me how they made it. Please. I still love him and I know he still loves me but we can't be together right now or ever again and hopefully we'll remain friends but anyone who has gone through this please email me or im me on msn
- Date:
- 05/15/05
- Name:
- lauren
- Email:
- laurenrules45@aol.com
- Age:
- 20
- Dated-online-before:
- Flirted some, if that counts
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
I ment someone on a online program, and we are still friends today.
- Date:
- 06/13/05
- Name:
- becca
- Email:
- Age:
- 21
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
I've tryed many online 'relationships' and was even engaged to a guy tht I had met online, well when that relationship failed, i started meeting people from friends and eventually that didnt work out ethier. One night I was stuck at home because all of my 'friends' had made plans with out me, and my boyfriend at the time had to work an extra shift. Well I ended up online and started chatting. I saw this screenname and it looked like my ex-fiances so i IM'd it thinking it was him and was going to mess with his head. Well turned out to be somebody different, with the same first name as my ex-fiance. We ended up talking for hours, which spilled over in to days and days of phone conversations. He kept asking me to meet him and I declined telling him that I had a boyfriend but he still pressed on saying that we could be just friends. One day I told him yes that we could meet in person, because my boyfriend and I got into a argument. Well when he was on his way to my house, my boyfriend called at the same time telling me that he wanted to make up! Well I had to quickly call my 'net' guy and tell him to hold off a few minutes because I didnt want my bf to see him. He said okay. My boyfriend came over and we made up, but he couldnt stay long because he had to work. I thought about just telling my 'net' guy that we would meet another day, but I didnt want to be stuck at home all night ethier, so I called him back and told him that we were still on. He came to my house and when I opened the door, he had roses for me, and he said these are for you! I was like wow thank you!!! We went to a friend of mine's house and we talked and talked and he bought us all dinner. We ended up stay'n out the entire night, just talking and laughing. At the end of the night, he kissed me good night and said that he'd see me tomarrow. We were inseprable from tht point on. I guess when I knew he was the 'one', was the night I told him I was moving back to my hometown because my parents were sick. He told me not without me your not, and well he came with me. We've now been together almost 4yrs, and have a beautiful baby girl together, and i'm counting on many many more years to come!!!
- Date:
- 09/03/05
- Name:
- Corinboha
- Email:
- corinboha@aol.com
- Age:
- 39
- Dated-online-before:
- No
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
In short, I was suddenly single again, after the untimely death of my husband of 13 years and my eldest daughter 7 years old. They were killed in a terrible auto accident that I was in also. I was reported dead also, but God had another plan for my life and the life of my two remaining young children. At the time Ashley was only 2 months old and TJ was 3 years old. We had just discovered that TJ was mentally retarded and would not be as other boys developmentally. I was in the hospital for three weeks recovering from my injuries. Once I got out of the hospital it was a very long road to complete recovery. I was in physical therapy for two years, but during that time, God did something completely out of the ordinary in my life. After the first year of being single, the desire to date and even marry again began to visit my mind, but I never thought I would meet anyone who would or could love me the way my first husband did. I even had a very dear friend to tell me it would be near impossible for me to ever marry again because of my age, the fact I had two small children and one of which was mentally handicap, he told me I should just be content witht he lot the Lord had given me in life. Being a committed Christian, it was very important for me to follow God's word and walk in obedience to it. Funny, none of my married friends or family ever introduced me to anyone, I guess for the reasons my friend stated above. I have always been a fighter and an overcomer, so this was just one more thing I had to tackle, but the good news was, I did not have fight this battle alone. The Lord had spoken to me several months after the death of my first husband and told me, I would remarry and that I would not be in and out of deadend dating relationships. He also impressed upon my spirit that the man I would meet would be my husband and that is exactly what happened. I was up late one night doing some work from my job and decided to logon to this dating website, stictly by accident, I found this sight. I created a profile and waited. A few days later, I received several emails form would-be callers, but none of them interested me enough to respond back to more than once or twice. I was at work late one night and as I was packing up getting ready to go home and leave for vacation for two weeks, I was prompted to look one more time at this particular website. Reluntantly I did and that is when my spirit connect with my triunion partner. He did not have a picture and his profile was very brief, but it was something in what he had said that really caught my attention. I responded to him and left for two weeks. When I returned home, I immediately checked my email and there was a response from him. This went on for weeks. We continue to email each other several times a day for several weeks then we decided to move to the telephone and actually hear each others voice. During this time, he never asked me anything about my physical makeup which was very refreshing. He was more concern about my kids and my dreams in life. Finally, he asked me out and I accepted. But a lot of things happened leading up to our first meeting. During this time, I had informed my girlfriend and her husband what was going on and they took a personal interest in me and my well-fare. Her husband suggested he meet with my date first and he would give me the thumbs up or down. Well, he arranged a meeting with him and the two of them hit it off wonderfully. They became best friends, but my friends husband never old me how he looked or how tall he was. At the time, it really did not matter. I was enjoying our conversation so much it really did not matter. As the date got closer, my brother-in-law also got involved. He arranged a meeting with him and it went well. So that was two men whom I trusted that gave me the thumbs up on this guy, but no one told me how he looked. The date is getting closer and closer then, this guy calls me and tells me he wanted to talk with my Pastor before proceeding. Well, I was floored and very honored that he thought enough of me to be willing to subject himself to this type of scintiny. Finally, two days before our first date and I called him and suggested that we go on a double date. He was so wonderful, he simply said, whatever would make you most comfortable. I asked my friend and her husband to come with us and they did. We all met at this very nice resturant. When I arrived at the resturant everyone was there, but him. I asked my friend where he was and they both just said, oh he is in the bathroom, let's go to our table and he will be along shortly. Well, to my surprise and horror, here comes this guy carrying a shopping bag with draglocks all the way down his back wearing a green, red and gold afro-centric cap. My mouth dropped. I would not get up to greet him, I just stuck my hand out and told him to sit down. During this time, I never looked at him,but I was thinking, ok, I could do three things, I could just get up and leave, go call my sitter and tell her to page me or stay and enjoy a great meal, afterall, it was at my favorite resturant. I opted to stay and enjoy the meal. I could not believe I had made this kind of mistake. I had prayed and sought the Lord, looked to friends for help, how could this had happened? After about 15 minutes, he mentions that it was very warm in the resturant and reached up and pulled the wig off his head. Everyone at the table begin to laugh so hard we were all in tears. Later I learned, my dear friends were in on his little game. Our first date was unbelieveable. Later, he went out to his car and came back in with a big popcorn tin. I opened it reluntantly and to my surprise, he had bought things for my children. After our dinner, my girlfriend of her husband left and he and I sat in my car and talked for another two hours in the parking lot of the resturant. He asked me out again the next day, that was on a Friday night. We went out again the next day and just walked around in the mall. It was magic. I invited him to my home for dinner the next day after church. I had never invited anyone of the opposite sex to my home since the death of my husband, so this was a big deal. I told my friend and she and her husband made sure they kept an eye on us during our courtship. Anyway, he came over the house and he hit if off with my kids great. Ashley was 15 months and TJ was 4 years old, not completely potty trained. While he was there, TJ had to go to the bathroom, well, he volunteered to take TJ to the bathroom, initially, I was a bit concerned, but the holy spirit gave me peace and told it was ok. After our dinner, he told me, the Lord had already spoken to him and told him, he was going to marry me. I really did not believe, well long story short, three months later, we were engaged and 15 months later, we had a cinderalla wedding. It was beautiful. We have been married for three years and I am still enjoying my Happily Ever After. My husband and I are in ministry together and we write and teach other singles about biblical mate selection and knowing what you are looking for in a mate.
- Date:
- 09/25/05
- Name:
- Angelina
- Email:
- angie35cutie@insightbb.com
- Age:
- 15
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
Me and my boyfriend Eric met online almost a year ago. We both had depression, problems, normal teenage things with a more dramatic twist? The day we started talking, I was already considering him my best friend. We had alot in common, but not just that...it was like i had always known him. Like i already knew his favorite color was green and he loved slash from guns n roses. One night, i wasnt home and he was very depressed and was writing his goodbye letter and as he wrote it said " and g..." and he saw "ang" which makes angie (my nickname) and he didnt do it. He promised me he wouldn't prior to that. So we pretended to not like each other for 4 months and finally on December 8th, 2004 Eric told me he loved me and i had known it all along. He had known it all along. Well of course, we get alot of rude comments, because not only are we young but we live 600 miles away from each other. It wasnt and still isnt the 'fling' everyone has seen it to be seeing as our 1 year anniversary is coming soon. During the summer my parents drove me up to see him and for 3 days i was home for the first time in my life. I had never felt so complete and so...right. Eric is coming down here in November and we plan on moving in together after highschool. Eric is so amazing and i can trust him with anything. he helped me become who i am and helped me get away from being the stepping stone of everyones path. I can honestly say that i have no doubts that we will always be together. Though the waiting is so painful and gets extremely tough, thats what makes us stronger and understand things better. i would not have taken our relationship any other way. We overcame so many obstacles and still are and always will. Its part of life and im glad to say that i will be spending mine with his.
- Date:
- 10/01/05
- Name:
- nell
- Email:
- Age:
- 14
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- It depends on the circumstances
Story
i met a guy in a chatroom, he ws 16 then soz i decided to talk to him!, just out of the blue, he asked me if i had msn messngr, i told hm i didnt and asked him why he asked me that question, he responded that normally hed be bored n when i said hello to him, he felt there was sumthing special, he apologised, i luaghed n strted flrtin wit him, we jus kept on talkin for about 5 hours non-stop , abt stuff that doesnt make sense rightnow and the fact that he was in turkey n i am in the uk didnt stop us from falling in love 4 months gone now, and we still keep in touch for atleast 5 hours a day, he is commin here to see me next summer and i am telling u now that i cant wait to see him!. kiss him and even hold him! SENI COK SEVIYORUM SAMET!!!, U OWN MY HEART!!!<3
- Date:
- 10/09/05
- Name:
- Amanda
- Email:
- Age:
- 17
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- It depends on the circumstances
Story
Hi. I have had three online boyfriends. Sad to say that i have never had a real in person boyfriend but i dont mind. The first boyfriend i had lived rather far away, too far away actually. But that realation ship didnt last long. I was..oh say..15 then. Then i met another guy in a different state. He was sweet and protective but things changed and well if u guessed it ended. Then i met a guy named Joe. i had known him long before i had either boyfriends. He was my friend and thats all he was supposed to be. That is 'till i fell for him. And i told him about my feelings and it turned out that he felt a similar way. So we started "going out". We knew before dating that we had many things in common. But dating revealed alot more! eventually we fell in love or should i say..regonized that we loved each other. We have been going together 6 months and 4 days to be exact. And that is to this day. To me his is the world. I know this sounds like a lot coming from some one my age, but i cant help it. Every time and i mean EVERYTIME we talk we laugh our heads off at the silliest things. We planed to tell our parents about each other. And we did. Only thing is..it didnt work out. I was only supposed to tell my parents a bout a guy that i want them to meet. but they saw through my lie and i was forced to tell them the truth and being so protective, they kind of forbid me to see him. Even talk to him at one point. but loving him so much i couldnt obey. So we have agreed to wait untill we are 18 and moved out to meet. i used to think that there was somthing terriblly wrong with me for loving some guy on the net. but when you love someone so much . all your doubts wash away. I can only hope that things work out for the best between joe and i. which looks to be lasting forever. So as my crazy(funny) boyfriends says our relationship "ownz" lol.
- Date:
- 10/09/05
- Name:
- Joe
- Email:
- Age:
- 16
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
Hey. I've only dated one other girl on the internet.....but I don't wanna talk about that. I've never actually had a "real life" girlfriend sadly... just like the girl i'm dating online right now has never had a "real life" boyfriend. Anyways, I met Amanda when I was 15 I think. And we were friends for a long time, sending emails back and forth, chatting about whatever, etc. But then 1 or 2 days before my birthday, she confessed her "crush" on me. And to be honest, I had a thing for her too. We ended up being perfect for eachother. We had tons of things in common, and after we started going out, we discovered even more things! We knew we were meant to be. But then we told our parents about who we were seeing... and of course most people think anyone that net dates is some 30 year old pervert. So I had to lie to my parents, saying I'd met her in person before once, but she told her parents the whole truth; we had met on the net. After that her parents didn't want her on the computer anymore period... but we still got to talk. And by now, she is able to chat with me ALOT more often, so everything's cool again. Anyways, Amanda is everything to me; if I didn't have her I'm afraid I would have to keel over and die. We're going to be together forever. I know it, she knows it, and once we meet, everyone will know it.
- Date:
- 10/27/05
- Name:
- Ashley
- Email:
- Age:
- 12
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
Well I am now thirteen and I have met this boy online and have been dating him for about 7 months we met in a weird way. We met through our enemy it turns out. He invited us both to a conference and both of them were fighting and I was trying to break them up. Then I sent him an IM asking him why they were fighting. About two days later I found out that he fell in love with me and I fell in love with him also and asked him out. Things have been going pretty well now. We plan on staying together forever. It's good to know that it is possible and it has happened. It gives me a great strength in my mind knowing me and him staying together is possible. Thank you so much for making this web site. Its really inspired me.
- Date:
- 11/12/05
- Name:
- Kiki
- Email:
- kiki-desu@hotmail.com
- Age:
- 14
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
It was the strangest happening I had ever had really. I was just on my usual chat site in the Role Playing room chating when I got a pop up message, a p2p (person to person) box, that some guy had basicly only started a game with me, I went a long with it and had a fine time role playing as I always did. I thought at least that would be the last time this ever happened, well speaking to him that is, but fate must of had it he stayed in touch with me and we became the best of friends, yet also i already had boy-friend at the time but I knew he liked me because I made a new account on the site and acted to be a friend of mine and asked him if he did like me (my "friend") when he answered yes I couldnt believe it, i loved him, but only as a brother. Then when he found out I had someone he was so heartbroken it was like his emotion of love died, i felt so bad for him but he kpet happy or tried to around me, and then one day i found myself typing to him and telling him I indeed loved him to, i dumped my old boyfriend lol and after getting together with my guy now we found out we had so much in common it just isnt funny! we love everything and we are perfect soulmates, I dont know what I would do if my guy hadnt thought I was interesting enough to keep contact with. Loki&Krissy, the perfect couple, online and now over the phone ^.^
- Date:
- 11/12/05
- Name:
- So in love...
- Email:
- Age:
- 15
- Dated-online-before:
- No
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- It depends on the circumstances
Story
It's kind of funny how I met my guy. Let's call him Ian. In February of this year, I saw one of my most favourite movies for the very first time. I got onto the movie website as soon as I could and started chatting with other fans on the message board. Ian joined the message board in March. We just clicked from the second we started talking to eachother. I remember that one of the first messages he sent me was about zombies. We got closer and closer and in May I told him how I felt about him. Then we started talking on msn. We didn't have much to say at first, and I really didn't want to tell any of my friends or family about him. After all, he was my first boyfriend. I didn't think my mom would approve me going out with a boy who lived 1000 miles away. In August and September, I took the cowards way out and stopped talking to him. It's so hard to be so far away from him, and I eventually realized what I mistake I was making. By now, we've been going out for 6 months and we're still going strong. I'm so lucky to have him and he feels the same about me. I know that we'll meet someday.
- Date:
- 11/16/05
- Name:
- Bev
- Email:
- Age:
- 16
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
Well, it all started a few months back in a Yahoo! chat. I don't remember all the details, but I noticed a name in the room that caught my interest. We talked a bit, and I had already felt myself drawn towards him, so we added one another and such. For about two weeks, we really didn't talk much. I didn't know what to say, and I guess he didn't really know either. But after we started talking, I instantly felt myself getting closer and closer to him. After about 3 more weeks, I realized that we had A LOT in common. I mean, we like the same of pretty much everything. I started "e-crushing" on him, I guess you could say... but I was too afraid to admit it until later. Finally, when I did, he too admitted that he had developed feelings for me, and was too afraid to tell me because he feared rejection. After that point, we started to form an even closer bond. Unfortunately, he's four years older than me, and lives in another country. It's hard to live so far away from someone you love, but it also makes the relationship stronger aswell. We've planned to meet in July of 2006, and see how it goes... and if it goes well, to eventually move in together. I know many people are skeptical of internet relationships, but this is honestly the kind of thing that you have to expirence yourself before you can understand it. They're not just for people who are "too ugly" or "losers". Internet relationships are a way to really get to know someone before you know what they look like. It's very possible to fall in love with someone over the internet, it happens every day. And as hard as it is to talk to someone you know in person about the person you care for, I'm sure there are people online that will understand. So, good luck to you all!
- Date:
- 11/22/05
- Name:
- Anonymus
- Email:
- Age:
- 14
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- It depends on the circumstances
Story
I'm registered to this fansite, wich i visit (almost) every day. I got this msg from a guy once, he seemed kinda nice, so we started talking. He was great company, i started fallin' in love with him. After some time, he told me how he feels about me, that's when we started our online relationship. It was OK for 5 months. I kept believing everything he told me, about how we're gonna meet someday blahblahblah. In the last 2 months he totally disappeared. No sign of him. Then he told me he'd been in jail for almost a week n stuff... i believed it at first, but now, the more i think about it, the more i think he kept lyin' to me. And, yea, he DID keep lyin' to me. I've wasted 7 DAMNED MONTHS for someone, who's a liar. I ended this "relationship" weeks ago, and i'm SOOOO over it! Hell, it's a lot better this way. I like bein' independent. Of course, this was a real bad experience for me. I'll be more carefull with men from now on. Peace out!
- Date:
- 12/14/20
- Name:
- Turkey T.
- Email:
- webrickt@comcast.net
- Age:
- 20
- Dated-online-before:
- Yes
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- No
Story
Sorry if I mistyped, I'm still trying to get over this. I met her earlier this year, I had told her that I had a crush on her since we were both in a forum. She said she'd think about it so I decided to get to know her. Everything was sounding good, so I asked her on a roleplaying date. She agreed and it was set for the next day. It started to become more of an adventurous date than a romance one, but it really bought us together. but what got the relationship started was in late January, I was shy and afraid to speak my mind. And she told me that if I wanted her that much, I should open up more. I have, by telling her a fantasy I had with her in it. and that's how it started. We've online dated alot and I tried foring a rule since she was 17 then, that we shouldn't try to...go for the homerun, so to speak. Well, we felt so more love for each other than it couldn't last anymore. The rule was broken, but we loved each other so much that it was hard not to. I felt so loved, we've done alot together. And I had many firsts with her, unlike how I felt with my old girlfriends, who also dumped me. But I never felt anything in real life. So they were my firsts in my life. Things were going well, sure, a few bumps along the way. As well as I accepted her mistakes many times. It was because I felt like it wasn't ever going to end. I gave her two items, a furry cats doll and my favorite watch necklace, so she knows that I have loved her, and it's a reminder to her that there is a guy for her after her past expiences. We had a plan that I'd go meet her in March once i get the money. It was great till it was almost halloween....Then she dumped me. She says it's cause I am too perfect and mature. I accepted it, trying to hide my feelings. But soon after, she gotten a new boyfriend, who is known for being wise, strong, and caring. I respect the guy alot, but it makes me feel worthless. Mostly cause he has the money to meet her at the snap of his fingers. I was working for mine. She still wants to be friends, which is hard to accept, since I loved her so much. It all seemed so good till you walk into a glass wall. I'd like to be on both sides, saying it's good if you meet the right person. But now, it isn't. People keep telling me I'll find a better person, but It's truely impossible. cause she fit perfectly as the girl I always wanted personality-wise and sexuality-wise. And she was really cute too. I pains me to see this happening to me. But I have no chance to meet a girl in real life either. So really, she was my last hope. and I sort of do hope that she does come back to me.
- Date:
- 12/15/05
- Name:
- Johnny Lundbech (Daff-Power)
- Email:
- Yez01@msn.com
- Age:
- 18
- Dated-online-before:
- No
- Would-recommend-dating-online:
- Yes
Story
Well.. First the very basics! necessary lol. My name, age "location" (now):Johnny (19)"Denmark". Her name + (age now)+"location": Alandra. (14) "Australia" To start from the beginning, we have to go around almost 8 months back. (in 3 days that is exactly 8 months)Anyway. I was a newbie at a site called MyOtaku.com (weblog for animefans) more than a year ago and I didn't know anything about it. But in the settings on the account there was this "random member button" which if pressed lead you to a totally random members site. And one day I felt like trying it out and pressed it and ended up on a site which belongs to the girl I am now together with. I noticed that she had just made the account and I was the first to sign her GB, and first time we talked on msn, she asked if it was okay for me to talk to a 13 year old, and I didn't really care that much about age as she has always been pretty mature of her age, anyway, after a while we started talking over msn and after just 3 months we were really close friends and I had gotten those feelings for her which I never had tried before.. I wasn't sure if it was love until one day. on my birthday 16th of april (were I turned 19) she gave me a virtual kiss and I started hoping that there would be something and 2 days after that she told me one morning before I had to go to school, that she had a crush on me and I told her that I had the same feelings towards her. But when she first told her mum about me there seemed to be no chance of us being together, but as time went she could see that it was serious love and not just playing around and accepted me. Al gotten herself a cellphone that her mum didn't like and it was taken, but she did allow us to talk on the phone instead. And as most teenagers Al, doesn't always like her mum's actions and ideas. I remember one evening when I was supposed to call, the phone didn't work and I ended up getting through far too late, and her mum picked it up and I explain the situation to her. Mah.. and lately things have been really rough on my girlfriend.. I know.. if we really have to go in age details and that, then she is having a far harder time than I might know of especially because we haven't had any physical contact for almost 8 months since we got together and not too long ago she found out that it was far too painful living without me than like this and I know it can sound really lovey dovey and all.. but.. I seriously love that girl! And I made a promise to her.. that I would get to her place as quickly as possible, and love her forever! I can't live without her and I don't want to! and Al. I know you'll probably be reading this sometime. My love.. We will be together soon! I love you! In other words. Online dating isn't as bad as many thinks, but of course there will be a reason to be cautious. My parents knows about my girlfriend and hers knows about me. To me she is everything, and the fun part is that none of us had a bf/gf before so we're still learning. But I can't imagine any better girlfriend than her! ^_^ Johnny
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